I admit I am a little more emotional than your average woman.  I tend to cry when I’m sad, angry, or happy.  It’s  my way of letting it out.  Andy is NOT a fan of my crying and wishes every time I start that I would just stop.  Sometimes  he is the cause of my tears and he thinks he does nothing at all.

I am upset that he has been giving me no attention for the past three weeks.  He has been so busy with work functions at night, doing work on the computer, etc.  Finally I break down on Saturday night and I tell him that I need some more attention today because I am feeling like I am by myself all the time.  He says “This is the way it is, if you don’t like it, too bad.”  So I cry and cry some more because now I feel like he hates me.  The story goes on and on and on.  My point here is that Andy thinks he never does anything to make tears come down my face.  He thinks its silly that I cry and refuses to talk to me when I do.  Well of course,  this just makes everything WORSE than it was when I started crying because now he is ignoring me.

Guys, do see how this is a never ending circle?  If you just comfort a girl and give her a hug and kiss, you are much better off then ignoring her.  I’ve told Andy this secret several times and he still doesn’t use it or believe me.  I am not sure why.  Men or women,  help me out make Andy see all he has to do is just put in a little effort into this instead of saying, “I’m not dealing with this crying today.  I just want to relax.”

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